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- UUYO Members Help Plant Community Gardens as Part of Farm to Family All-Church Project
- Sunday, May 20 – Gathered Here Discussions
- Sunday, May 20, Service – “Singular Experience”
- Sunday, May 20, Adult Forum – “Update on the Farm-to-Family All-Congregation Project”
- Mother’s Day “In Care and Conscience” Led by Rev. Mary Grigolia, Audra Carlson, Tim Raridon, and Becky Harker
- Students in UUYO Religious Education Classes Doing Artwork
- Sunday, May 13, Service – “In Care and Conscience”
- Sunday, May 13, Adult Forum – “New ‘Simple’ Solutions to Life’s Love Problems
- All Church Auction Saturday June 2 – 6 pm
- Introduction to Healthy Congregations – CANCELED
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October 23, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
A monk joins a monastery and takes the vow of silence. Now in this monastery that vow is very strict, and no one is allowed to speak ever, except once a decade, when each monk meets with the abbot, at which time they are allowed to say just two words.
So after ten years, the monk meets with the abbot, and is asked how things are with him, and he says, “bed, hard”. Ten years more, and he meets, and says, “food, bad”., Another decade and at this meeting he says, “I quit!” At which point the abbot says, “That doesn’t surprise me a bit. You’ve done nothing but complain ever since you got here.”
So may I ask your forbearance today, at least to put up with this brief message? I don’t want you to get labeled a complainer like that monk.
Continue reading Sermon: Asking Your Forbearance
October 16, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Introduction
It was good to see some of you at the Occupy Youngstown rally yesterday, to hear Susie Beiersdorfer speak, among others. Susie, I bet you were glad to have a microphone and a sound system.
The folks at Occupy Wall Street, at Zuccotti Park had to do something different, for they are forbidden from using sound systems, even bullhorns. So they’ve developed this system, where when someone wants to start speaking, they shout ‘mic check’, and others around pick this up, also shouting ‘mic check’, which quiets everyone down.[1] Then everything the speaker says is spoken out by others, relaying the words out as a wave of sound through the very large crowd.
This ‘mic check’ thing is incredibly clever. And it’s not new. It’s what the Romans did, when they had events like chariot races at the Circus Maximus, that could hold some 150,000 people. Repeaters would relay the words and gestures of the emperor or other speaker so that all could at least have some sense of what was being said. So in a way, the Occupy Wall Street folks are going back to the roots of large gatherings.
Continue reading Sermon: Back to the Roots
October 9, 2011
Sarah Lown
The Happy Valley –the inspiration for my talk today– is a place called Abyssinia. It’s a perfect land –where earthquakes produce aromatic spices, and no one wants for a thing. Sounds like bliss.
Meantime, back in the real world, about once a week, someone turns to me –or I turn to someone else— and ask, “Is it my imagination, or are things falling apart?”
It seems like things are falling apart. The economy looks bleak. U.S. military actions abroad are escalating. School systems are in crisis. Foreclosures are still on the rise. There’s climate change. We don’t need to look hard to find things falling apart.
It’s times like this that I take comfort in reading accounts of disaster and dystopia. I think it helps to know that things can always get worse. Continue reading Sermon: Hope for a Happy Valley
October 2, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Reading – T S Eliot – Little Gidding (excerpt)
1. Little Gidding
There’s a German movie called Lola Rennt or Run Lola Run that’s about a woman who has twenty minutes to obtain 100,000 marks to save her boyfriend’s life. What makes the film interesting is that this story is told three times, with each scenario starting exactly the same way, but with tiny deviations that compound into drastically different outcomes.
One way to look at the three scenarios offered in the movie is to see them as three variations on the same story, three possible ways the story could be told. Thinking of multiple versions of a story that could all be true is sometimes difficult for people in our culture to accept. Media, first movies, then television, then computer graphics, allow stories to be presented with such a high level of realism that they almost become accepted as truth. As a culture, we’ve lost the ability to accept that stories can be murky, incomplete, they can have multiple layers and meanings.
Continue reading Sermon: Extreme Interconnection
September 18, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
One summer when I was in college, I attended one of those wilderness survival training programs. This wasn’t one of those hard-core Outward Bound or military survival experiences, we didn’t eat bugs or learn to snare rats or anything. We just had to be spread out alone in the desert one night with out much in the way of material support.
Continue reading Sermon: “Survivor”
September 11, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Homily: Fire
We light a chalice every Sunday, acknowledging fire as an element of good, offering warmth, and light. Our ability to create and manipulate fire is an essential part of our evolution as humans.
And yet fire is not always good, as Pat related earlier with her house fire experience. Let us confront this aspect of fire. Let us now go down into the smoldering ruins of a difficult day of ten years ago.
Continue reading Sermon: Fire and Water
August 28, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Some of us here have been participating on and off in Julie Thomas’s wonderful study group on Tibetan Buddhism. Up in the Youth Room, she’s redecorated one wall with Buddhist images and an altar table filled with statuary, flowers, bowls, christmas lights, and other ritual objects. If you haven’t seen that room, you should go look at it. In the group we’re immersed into a Buddhist practice that is heavy on ritual, with incense, lots of chanting, communal reading, and brief meditations.
As someone who leans more toward the more austere and intellectual Zen Buddhism in my own interest, I’m just glad to have any Buddhist activity in Youngstown and in our space.
Now the study has been interesting. We’ve spent hours going over the meaning of a couple of short texts, in great detail. These texts, part of the Lom Rim genre, or Way of the Path, describe how one should live in order to fully realize one’s potential.
Continue reading Sermon: Precious Human Life
August 21, 2011
Rev. Matt Alspaugh
Years ago, I was traveling with my brother in Costa Rica. We found ourselves early one morning, steaming coffees in hand, standing on a bluff above one of the beaches on the Pacific coast. My brother pointed out surfers laying out on their boards, paddling for position as they waited for the good waves to ride.
Now my brother had surfed these beaches in his past, and told me surfers look for groups or sets of three waves, believing that at this beach, the waves often do come in sets of three, and that the last wave is often the biggest and best. Sure enough, we counted the waves, one, two , then watched several surfers rise to ride the third wave.

In their book, “American Grace: How Religion Divides and Unites Us”, Robert Putnam and David Campbell have documented the tumultuous changes in the American religious landscape in the last half century . The authors’ focus is on religious polarization and pluralism, but along the way they present a plethora of data about religious trends and changes, which lead me to think about what this means for our future.
Continue reading Sermon: Changing Face of American Religion
June 3, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
[For this Sunday, we experimented with images and video as part of the sermon. We've rarely done this, but our summer meeting space in Channing Hall is well suited for projection. The text below has the pictures and video inserted at approximately the places it was used.]

God Be Merciful.
God Be Merciful.
I’ve got to say I found those words hard to say out loud, to another person. We were part of a ministers group, a workshop, sitting across each other in pairs, doing one of those workshoppy exercises. This one involved one of us asking the other “Whose Are You?”, waiting for a response, and then saying “God be merciful” and repeating the question again: “Whose are you?” Over and over again, for the small eternity of five minutes.
Continue reading Sermon: “Whose Are We?”
June 5, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
I remember years ago one of my own experiences with an incentive bonus program. I was selected as one of two engineers in my department to receive an award and a cash bonus, it was something like 2000 dollars, a nice sum for me. We were to receive the award from some senior executive, over in the more posh, paneled and carpeted area of the building. But the other engineer who was chosen for this honor– well I thought he was a buffoon! Incompetent and kind of lazy to boot. He seemed to spend most of his time on the phone talking to his family. The only reason he was getting the award was because he was the long-time buddy of the department head. The realization that the award was not so much for merit as for connection tormented my young and idealistic mind. I’m older now, maybe a bit more cynical, but still wonder about money and its effect on behavior.
So let’s talk about money. Let’s start by talking about those who have done well with money. Maybe some of you here.
Continue reading Sermon: How Much Is Enough?
May 22, 2011
Becky Ann Harker
I have had an issue with religion my whole life. I guess that comes from having a Jewish father and a Catholic mother. If asked, I might have said I was both Catholic and Jewish. We celebrated all the big holidays, didn’t we? But, if pressed, I would have to admit that I wasn’t Christian, so couldn’t very well be Catholic. So, I must be Jewish by default. Judaism came before Christianity, so if you don’t accept Christianity, you must be Jewish.
Well, I found out later that there was a lot more to being Jewish than just eating lox and bagels and saying “machugena”! I guess I wasn’t Jewish either. My parents brought my brother, sister, and me to the UU Church in Shaker two different years. I was dedicated there the first year, and had my “Rite of Passage” the second time. My parents figured it was a good church to join- a happy medium between the two religions, and it would hold us over until we were adults and could decide for ourselves what we wanted to be.
That didn’t help my religious conflict, it turns out.
Continue reading Chalice Lighting: RE Sunday
May 8, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Many Unitarian Universalist ministers consider the Mother’s Day sermon a tough one to prepare. Of course it’s especially hard for me, a male, and a man who has no children, to preach on. I just don’t have much street cred on this topic. But even mother ministers struggle. Minister, and mother, Lynn Ungar put it this way:
It’s a well-known fact amongst ministers that Mother’s Day is a next to impossible thing to preach on. For every person who brings a sainted mother to church on Mother’s Day for a little well-deserved appreciation, there is someone else gritting their teeth over the utterly inadequate job their mother did of raising them.
So perhaps there are all kinds of us in here today. Those of you who do not want to hear about bad mothering on today of all days were probably annoyed at the second poem. Those of you who do need to hear about inadequacy and failure, so you can know you are not alone, are probably annoyed at the first poem. And maybe a lot more of you are annoyed at the third poem! This is all good.
Continue reading Sermon: Ancient Mother
May 1, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Animal Blessing
If you have brought an animal companion, or a photo, or a stuffed animal to church with you, we invite you to line up at the microphone and introduce it to us. Tell us its name, and tell us what it is, if that’s not obvious.
Blessing Ritual
Now for the ritual of blessing. We will have a laying-on of hands. Place your hand over your fuzzy friend or the image you’ve brought. If you don’t have one, feel free to call to mind one that is at home, one that used to be with you, or one that you’d like to have in your life.
Spirit of Life and Love, we give thanks for these creatures, who are sources of joy and comfort, care and companionship for us. Knowing that they are already blessed, may they continue to bless us with their presence. We are thankful for their gifts of attention, patience and playfulness. May the healing powers of joy, love and hope they bring touch us and everyone, of every age, here and all over the world.
Continue reading Sermon: “All Our Animals Are Already Blessed”
April 24, 2011
Rev. Matt Alspaugh
During my time as a ministerial intern, at a much bigger and more traditional UU church, the Easter service was a big deal, and the senior co-ministers pulled out all the stops, not only on the organ, but on the service, which went a little long. I had only a small part, making the pitch for the collection — I always seem to get the money part. Anyway, one of the co-ministers spoke a brief homily on spring, and fertility, and the pagan god Eostre, and the other, the most senior of the senior co-ministers gave a whole sermon on the resurrection. The most senior senior co-minister was accosted in the receiving line at the end of the service by a long-time member of the congregation. She said to him, with all annoyance, something like, “Every year we have the battle between Jesus and the Easter bunny. And Jesus wins again.”
Continue reading Easter: Reclaiming Paradise
April 17, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
What would happen if we humans were no longer here on the earth? What would happen if we were all, every one of us, lifted away in some universalist version of the rapture away to some far off heaven? The earth would go on without us, very well, according to writer Alan Weisman, in his book “The World Without Us”[1].
Weisman outlines in great detail how nature would obliterate our human creation. Some things would happen very quickly, within days or weeks. Subways flood and nuclear power plants melt down, just as we have seen in the tragedy in Fukushima. In months, small animals take over our houses and yards. In years, pioneer trees grow in cracks in streets, and in decades, houses decay and cave in — we know how that works, here in this region. In centuries, even dams wash away, bridges and buildings topple, and trees and understory cover it all. Only a few aluminum and stainless steel bits remain here and there as reminders of our presence.
Continue reading Sermon: “Insatiable is not Sustainable”
March 27, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
I find it a curiosity that Unitarian Universalism has so few symbols. The only commonly recognized symbol is the flaming chalice. Even that symbol is of relatively recent origin, adopted after the second world war.
We don’t have a collection of symbols like christianity does: the cross, the crown of thorns, the fish, the lamb, the cup, the dove, the star in the east. I’m sure that even mentioning these words brings up strong images and associations for many of you raised in various Christian faiths. You probably immediately visualized them in you mind, and perhaps had good or bad feelings arise about them.
Or consider some of the symbols of, say Tibetan Buddhism: the lotus, the wheel, the conch shell, the mirror, the endless knot. Now, I suspect most of you are like me, and had much less of a reaction to these symbols, and probably didn’t have strong, clear images appear in your mind. So the meaning of symbols or images is not fixed, but changes with our experience.
Continue reading Sermon: Images, Symbols, and Reality
March 20, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
As we begin to work with our All Church Social Justice Project, (or whatever we decide to name it) we begin to consider what we eat, and how we grow or raise it, and how this impacts the earth. In several sermons over the course of the spring, I and others hope to explore healthy and sustainable food production and consumption. This is as much a new area for exploration for me as it is for many of you.
The idea tilling the soil has been around for thousands of years, and is so pervasive that the plow is the image of agriculture, it’s the way agriculture is done. But plowing exposes the soil to the elements, and wind and water erosion carry off the soil forever. A Scientific American article on no-till agriculture notes[1],
“The soil on undisturbed hillsides in temperate and tropical latitudes is generally one to three feet thick. … Under plow-based agriculture, it would take just several hundred to a couple of thousand years to plow through the soil in these regions. This simple estimate predicts remarkably well the life span of major agricultural civilizations around the world…. Civilizations generally lasted 800 to 2,000 years, and … studies have now shown a connection between soil erosion and the decline of many ancient cultures.”
So when the soil is gone, we’re gone. If we continue plowing down our current path, we’ll likely follow in the tracks of those ancient civilizations, and find ourselves at a dead end.
Continue reading Sermon: Till Lightly the Earth
March 13, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
I watched a Russian made documentary called “Sunrise/Sunset”, which filmed a day in the life of the Dalai Lama at his exile home in Dharmsala India. He starts at 3:30 in the morning with a torturous exercise using slider, then goes through the day meeting dignitaries and teaching to standing room only crowds. Toward the end of the day, he is relaxing watching the BBC, and a clip of himself comes on. At first he laughs and points with delight to his face on the screen. Then he grows serious and asks, “What was wrong with me that day? I wasn’t smiling.” I found it appealing that what he paid attention to was not what he was saying that day or how well he presented himself in the interview, but what his emotional state was at the time.
Continue reading Sermon: The Art of Happiness
February 27, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
Some of you may remember the computer learning game, “Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego?” I don’t. I only know about it because when I worked at the planetarium we had a children’s show called, “Where in the Universe is Carmen Sandiego?”
The show involved an actor leading the audience through a chase around the solar system to capture the most vile (that’s V.I.L.E.) thief Carmen Sandiego, who in this case has stolen the rings of Saturn. My job as show operator was to turn the knobs and push the buttons to move the stars and carry us along on the chase.
I hated this show.
Continue reading Sermon: Where in the World is Unitarian Universalism?
February 13, 2011
Matt Alspaugh
As I sit in my window seat, on my way home from Monterey California, I contort to look out the window at the topography of the west, a mix of grey and brown dryness and the white brush of snow.
I notice the dry stream-beds, exposed, transparent, laid bare for me, amidst the lower peaks of the Rockies. In shadow, the stream beds stand out and I think of how water conforms into streams as it makes its way from mountain snow banks down hillsides and slopes to become rivers to flow toward the sea.
These are the life-paths of water, exposed to us. What would the streams of our lives look like, if we could see them from 40,000 feet? Would they flow fast and direct, following the only obvious path down through the deep, shadowed valleys between peaks? Would they carve out deep canyons with high walls that confine the flow and provide a path for water even through broken terrain?
Continue reading Homily: Beatrix Potter: The Meandering Path of Life
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